Lovely Relationship

A  beginning

focussing on lovely attributes

some how slips to focussing

on bad qualities of a partner,

a loved one

a low tolerance level

melting  love for the person

in the heat of  current pain ,

a memoir of  detestation

the breached threshold of tolerance

making sure to convert tolerance

in to contempt,

the love morphing into hate

and the hate branding

every action of other

as immoral  wrong  or selfish

peculiar is the tendency of brain

for it remembers the present pain

or pleasure ,

forgetting all the delights

unforgettable beauties of the other person or the past

denial of a second chance

to the one who is hurting ,

only denies an opportunity to overcome the pain of being hurt

all that the love,

the lifeline of existence,

the mother and manifestation

of  all wisdom,

cries out for  survival

is to appreciate the difference in others,

accept them

or at least   tolerate and forgive them !

 

Kamakhya

 

 

 

3 comments

  1. Infinite Living · September 24, 2018

    or it remembers the present pain

    or pleasure ,

    forgetting all the delights

    unforgettable beauties of the other person or the past

    This is so true. It takes a certain strength to accept, allow and have gratitude for what was shared in a positive way.

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    • Springstart@life : Kamakhya · September 25, 2018

      Appreciate your insightful words Pragalbha,
      Yes the relationship slips to an undesirable level when tolerance level to accept the differences is breached.
      The brain ironically remembers only the present condition & modulates its commands to treat others accordingly ,conveniently forgetting the good qualities , the life long contributions , the reasons for past happiness in others !
      A loving forgiveness is all that needed to sustain a lovely relationship with others or the self ! ( peace of mind & true happiness within )

      Liked by 1 person

      • Infinite Living · September 26, 2018

        Your comment in reply itself is a beautiful and much appreciated reminder.

        Liked by 1 person

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